As moms, we’ve all been there: During our pregnancies, and after baby, we often wonder (and our men wonder) if things will ever be the same again in the bedroom. This happens even more so when we have the baby, and the sexual desire often leaves us as we focus on our new bundle of joys.
With the hormonal fluctuation going through our bodies, and our bodies trying to shift organs back into place, sex is the very last thing on many of our minds. This often leaves our men to wonder when they can get their women back. Or if things will ever be the same when they do.
Please note: It is not advised to have sex before being cleared by doctors.
Here are some tips on how to get your swerve back after having a baby:
1) It takes a little longer for the natural lubrication in a woman to return to normal after a baby. To make things more comfortable and enjoyable, use a water based lubricant to help. This will make things more pleasurable for both man and woman.
2) If you’re worried about pain after baby, take it slow and steady. This will allow you to relax, and not tense up while being able to enjoy the experience with your mate.
3) Make time for intimacy. Making time for intimacy will make a huge difference in your response towards your man, and how fast you can get back to your regular sexy self. It’ll allow you and your mate to connect on an emotional level, which will help recharge your libido.